Hi Graham,

Thanks for your thoughtful response — I strongly agree with your two additional points. The only difference for me was that I didn’t really understand that I didn’t want to moderate until I was well into sobriety. It is definitely a freeing insight though, and I only wish I had been able to get there sooner.


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